Monday, 25 April 2011

#37 …when absence rekindles your feelings.


It is party at my aunt’s house tonight. All the newcomers in the family are very curious to know what the occasion is. Everybody was making guesses – Anniversary, Birthday, First date, etc. When nobody came up with the right answer, I decided to tell them the story behind this day being celebrated every year in their family. My aunt and uncle had first met in their teens at a common friend’s house and instantly developed liking for each other. The feelings had just started blooming when uncle decided to go abroad for his graduation and higher studies. They hadn’t yet formally expressed their love for each other and decided not to do it in any hurry. So he flew off without so much as a goodbye hug. Next few years passed like ages for both of them even though they weren’t even sure if the other was going to wait that long. Communication of any sort was not possible with mobile or internet not having developed by that time and letters not expected with no formal relationship. They were going through the most delicate stage of their life and very prone to falling in love over and over again. But surprisingly both held on to some dreams they may have seen once. The absence rekindled feelings rather than blowing them away. When uncle returned to India this day 30 years back, he went straight to aunty’s place to first find out if she was still available and then hug her before revealing how much he had thought of her all those years away in the foreign land. Aunty couldn’t have been happier, her wait paid. Since that day, this day is treated with utmost significant in their life and celebrated with great vigour. It is rightly said, Distance makes the heart grow fonder.

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